From the Anthology
Pandemic Reflections: Five Years Later
Are we still wearing masks?
Probably one of the things we remember most about the pandemic is the masks. Tugging at our ears, steaming up our glasses, hiding half of our faces. Some people were adamantly opposed, avowing that masks violated their rights, others just went along, it seemed to help, right? They became a cottage business, with people taking to their sewing machines and turning out creations in every color, design and sports logo. Some of us had collections with face coverings for every holiday and occasion.
Some of us, like myself, going through a surgical process, were only able to see the eyes of our array of doctors at our appointments. The eyes became the way we read others, peering over the mask. In some ways it was convenient. You didn’t have to worry about makeup, and you could at least make half of a face at someone you didn’t agree with.
The freedom and fresh air that came with the lifting of mask mandates was welcome. But are we still wearing them?
They may not be visible, but they can still be there. The pandemic, in a way, united us with a “We’re all in this together” vibe. People were reaching out, helping others at a time when so much was taken away, like celebrations, handshakes and hugs.
Five years later. we see the effects of the lockdown. We have learned the convenience of virtual meetings and classes. We still may get a bit squirmy at the thought of going out into a large crowd or someone sneezing. We may carry our hand sanitizer with us or wash our hands more often.
But now we are divided on so many issues. Much has happened during the last five years that has made us polarized, with strong opinions on political, environmental and social matters. It seems there is little room for the middle ground.
Are we still wearing masks?
We may have friends that have different views than us, so we put on our figurative mask and keep the conversation neutral. Do we mask how we really feel, or risk losing a friend? Do we put on a mask to keep the peace in the family or not to offend anyone?
Instead of physical face coverings we are now wearing masks of anger, masks of indifference, masks of complacency, masks of worry.
But underneath we can find hope, courage and compassion.
If the pandemic taught us anything, it taught us that we need each other.
Do we dare to remove our masks and let people see who we really are?
Sue Botos is a freelancer from Rocky River.
